'The' Girl.

They say you are blessed with life's greatest realizations when you are stoned. True enough ! It took me one 'stoning' to dawn this particular one upon me, and another to write it and share it with all of you.
And when I say it's priceless, believe me in the fullest measure.

The one question that has clouded over all of 'man'kind for ages.
How do you know if 'that' girl is perfect for you?

Checkpost1: Character.

The girls's good. By good, I mean she's got a good loving heart. If you believe the girl's good, you want to associate with her. There's no second-degree motives. Like any other good guy, you want to be friends with her.

Checkpost2: Compatibility.

The girl's fun. How much time can you spend with her (sans physical intimacy) without getting bored? Let's say you've just been rewarded with a three-day vacation. The first thing that would spruce up in my mind is to go hiking, paragliding, bungee-jumping, etc. in some exotic place. What would your (girl)friend do? Will she join you on your conquest or does she just like idling away in the peace and warmth of her home, reading books, listening to soft music and blow off all steam? If she chooses to come with you, you have a friend who shares the same fun factor as you. She gradually grows into a good/great friend.

Checkpost3: Physical attraction.

I love her. Whenever I see her, she looks so beautiful that I just wanna kiss her all day. I want to find her by my side every morning I wake up. Her soft touch and the warmth of her body instantaneously transports me to another dimension.

These checkposts are not independent. They all come one after another gradually as your relationship develops.
All the best. Wishing you that perfect girl. :)